Group sex is now a very common thing, especially among the younger generation. Intimate relationships when you are surrounded by a large number of people heat up the intensity of passion, danger, and interest in sex in general.

The most popular gangbang option is a threesome. Variations can be different, man-woman-woman, man-woman-man, a trio of girls, a trio of boys. Yes, you should not be surprised by the latter variants. Even in couples with a non-traditional orientation, this happens, because they are the same people who quite realistically can get tired of the monotony in sex, they also may want variety.

Why do people still try this kind of sex? Everything is simple, they want changes. Passion subsides over time, and this is a proven fact. For many people, it is very painful and difficult to face, especially when they have strong partnerships, but sex became boring, and partners need to do something about it.

We will not write here about a threesome in terms of random sex with random strangers, for those who do not care about relationships with their partner, if you are just two guys or two girls who want to have fun. We want to tell about threesome sex from the point of view of a person who has a good and strong relationship with a partner, who sees threesome sex as a way to diversify their sex life with their loved one. If you are interested, then let’s look at the basic rules of the threesome.

First Experience

The first experience in a threesome can be a difficult task. For the first time, you need to treat each other extremely carefully and lovingly. You must show your partner that they are the most important for you, and no games and entertainment can replace them. Make it clear that you are here for each other, the highest value for you is your relationship, and not an invited participant.

  • Do not invite your friends or acquaintances. In the threesome forget about your friends. It must be a stranger with who you will not have to communicate in the future. This is especially important at the beginning of such experiments. Perhapsб after the first successful experiments, you will still be bent on inviting a friend into a bed, but at first, it’s not recommended.
  • Know how to stop in time. If in the process you see that your partner doesn’t like something, feel awkward or bad, you should stop. Try not to miss this moment. Take him/her to another room or bathroom and talk. Ask what’s wrong, tell how you love each other. Relax your partner, inspire him/her; you should know the best way to reassure your partner. If the discomfort disappears – continue; if not – it’s better to stop it for today.
  • Professional is the best choice. For the first experience, the best option is to use the service of a professional. Yes, it’s much better than inviting someone you know for a threesome. Finding a third is not so difficult, especially in the modern world. You can use dating applications (Tinder for example), many forums and sites are also dedicated to this topic.

Threesome Formats

Two Men and a Woman

The easiest and most understandable option. It is simply because a woman is easily satisfied, and such kind of threesome almost always ends successfully.

Pros

  • It is much easier for two men to satisfy a woman. Everything is simple – four hands, two mouths, two penises. Double penetration. Double pleasure. One of the most common fantasies for a woman is she and two machos. A woman feels like a queen, being in the focus of the attention of two men at once.
  • This option requires almost no training. The main thing is the desire and trust of a woman to two men, and that’s it. Two men will always find something to do with a woman.
  • Women’s multiple orgasms. Everyone knows about the possibilities of the female body, girls can cum a lot and do it well. The male body is built differently. Men need time to rest. That’s why threesome with two men and a woman included is an ideal variant. While one is busy, the other is resting, and vice versa. And a woman gets her pleasure.
  • Fewer health hazards. When a man uses a condom, the chance of transmitting the infection is minimal unlike sex with two women, when the infection from the vagina is very easy to transfer by a hand from one woman to another.

Cons

  • A woman should trust at least one of the men and he should understand this woman well. Four strong hands in the midst of passions greatly reduce the degree of freedom of the partner. it’s easy to overlook that something is uncomfortable for a woman. Moans of pleasure are easily confused with moans of pain, especially if you are not familiar with a person. There must be someone who can stop actions that are not pleasant for a woman.
  • Not every man has a normal attitude to a naked tusty man with him in the same room, not to mention the bed. Accidental touches cannot be avoided. Therefore, if this is not a pleasant experience for you, you are not recommended to do such experiments.

Two Women and a Man

This format is much more complicated than the previous one, but at the same time, it is the most widespread and interesting for men. Among men, there is a common legend that having sex with two girls at the same time is wow. On the one hand, it is really so. Any man will be wildly delighted by the thought of two girls kissing passionately, dancing with each other, petting and loving each other up, and then pass on to the man’s caresses in passion. But there is a small nuance. According to statistics, in nine out of ten cases, either one or both women run the risk of remaining unsatisfied.
There are many reasons for this:

  • A man paid more attention to only one woman;
  • The man was a way too long with the second partner, while the first one lost interest;
  • One of the partners turns out to be too jealous (most often it is your wife or girlfriend);
  • The man was turned on a bit too much and cummed quickly;
  • The girls began to compare themselves and one of them was confused, or even completely ceased to understand why she was there.
  • That is, in fact, the fault of the man, that his attention was not enough for two beauties at once.

Pros

  • It is really beautiful. The view of two naked women is a truly beautiful sight. This is one of the most common stories in the porn industry. Men, with rare exceptions, find Lesbian erotica exciting. Many women like this as well.
  • This format allows a woman to reveal her sexuality. After all, some women often think about their sexuality, about their sexual tastes. Many women are actually bisexual, but many are afraid to admit it. Accordingly, a threesome, where a third partner is a girl, can help reveal her sexual preferences and explore this area of ​​her sexuality.

Cons

  • It’s easy to ruin everything. It was written above how exactly. A man needs to give all his best to satisfy both women. it’s really difficult, so there’s a great chance that all three will remain dissatisfied. In addition, women are more sensitive than men, they notice any mood swings of the whole threesome and react to it. One bad joke can pretty much ruin the whole mood for a threesome.
  • In this format of a threesome, extra care must be taken. It is possible to transfer the microflora of the vagina from one woman to another not only by a penis but also by fingers, lips and other parts of the body. Do not forget that the threesome that is shown in porn is not true and does not really look like that. In reality, you have to be very careful. Here you’re petting the vagina of one of the women with your fingers. Now, before you go to another one, you need to wash your hands or somehow process them. Hygiene is a necessary rule in a threesome.
  • Among women, as well as men, there is a percentage of those who do not accept sex or even just erotic games with a person of their gender. And if you have such a girl in a couple (especially if this is your soulmate), then they may not like the process.
  • After all the above, you should conclude whether you want to try something like this or you are fine living without such experiments.

General Practical Tips

  • The most important thing: everyone should like each other. In order for the impressions of the threesome to remain positive, all participants should feel comfortable in each other’s company. If at least one of the participants does not like someone, sex will only ruin everything.
  • Set stop words with your regular partner so that while being turned on and on the pick of passion, you would know for sure that something went wrong. Anyone who hears it must immediately stop the action.
  • Neutral territory. For a threesome, the neutral territory is the best choice. It will be easier for everyone. The invited partner (a unicorn) – a woman or a man – in the apartment of the owners, in any case, will feel constrained. In neutral territory, it will be easier for everyone to relax, as far as everyone is equal there.
  • Create a romantic atmosphere. We think this is a prerequisite. Even if you are accustomed to boring sex under the blanket, go beyond the usual. Turn on soft music, light candles, create romantic twilight. This is important for any woman. It makes it possible to relax and stop being nervous.
  • Stock up on light snacks. Prepare some fruit, chocolate, water in advance. You may take some wine (it is better to find out from all participants about their preferences). Strong alcohol is better excluded. It is very important to stock up with water.
  • Stock up on a lot of lubricant and contraceptives. Use the rule: more is better than less.
  • Some recommend abstaining from sex for a few days before the threesome. But it seems to us this option is not too good for a man. After all, the view of two naked girls already threatens with overexcitation, and yet he still needs to satisfy two beauties.
  • You can watch porn together before starting. However, there is also a nuance. After all, not everyone likes porn, so this is more suitable for those who really like to watch porn.

Good luck to everyone in your sexual affairs!